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Today, we're talking about when to have sex with a guy. I get asked this question often because a lot of women, particularly when they like the guy, thing become complicated. Simple things--like when to have sex with him-- all of a sudden become complicated. The reason why is women have an assumption that having sex with a guy early turns them off.
Women have this thing where they think we live in a Christian society that has morality as a basis for attraction. The truth is that the more you make a guy wait for sex, the more obvious your strategy looks. Most guys don't mind that and it's a good strategy but it tells people what you want. It communicates to people what you want and some guys have infinite patience and they're doing that just to prove to you they like you, get you hooked and once you think she likes you, he'll pull away.
You think that you're doing it right but the thing is that that strategy is too transparent--it's pretty obvious what you're trying to do. What you got to do is not do that. My recommendation is to just have fun. Don't be afraid to be judged unless you guys are friends or unless he talks a lot but generally, do it when you want to.
Don't use sex as bait or as a strategy. Don't use sex as an end to something or as an ultimate reward. Sex is not the ultimate reward because it quickly does away. It's your commitment to him, your time to him that's the ultimate reward.
The thing is that having sex with a guy on the first date does not turn him off. In fact, I can tell you that a lot of the girls that I liked a lot, I had sex with on the first date and it never looked slutty because what makes you look needy and bad isn't the sex in the first date, it's the overpursuing. When you begin to pursue him, inquire about his time, what he's doing later on--you know, when you try to speed things up on your own pace, that's what turns him off. It's not the quick sex.
Having sex on the first date reveals to guys how much they like you. It helps them understand whether or not you're somebody they're gonna continue seeing that's why it looks like they're getting turned off when they have sex with you. In reality, they're not getting turned off by you, it's just that they're realizing that they don't like you. See, when your dick is hard, sometimes you think that you love the person so you need to let that out so you could think logically. That's why I say to do it for the fun of it if you're gonna have sex with him. Do it for the fun and not with some motive because the guy's gonna feel that.
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